The 3-3-3 Rule- Transitioning Home
Adopting a dog is an exciting and rewarding experience! Transitioning their new home can be an adjustment for you, your family, and your new friend. It's important to understand that every dog needs time to adjust to their new environment- but what does that mean? How long should I wait till I know they're comfortable? How can I help them?
That's when the "3-3-3 Rule" can help. This "rule" offers a helpful framework for this adjustment period, breaking it down into three key phases: the first 3 days, the first 3 weeks, and the first 3 months. This rule emphasizes the importance of patience, consistency, and compassion, in the process transitioning into their forever home.
During the first 3 days, your new friend may feel overwhelmed and anxious. They'll likely be unsure about their new surroundings, routines, and family. Some dogs may exhibit timid behavior, sleep more than usual, or refuse to eat. This is a crucial period to create a calm and welcoming environment for your dog by keeping interactions low-key and ensuring they have a safe space to decompress. According to adoption organizations, 30% of dogs returned to shelters are those who were unable to settle during the early days after adoption—highlighting the need for patience during this phase.By the end of the first 3 weeks, dogs typically begin to settle in and feel more comfortable. You'll start to see their personality emerge as they acclimate to daily routines and bond with family members. This is an ideal time to begin establishing boundaries and introducing basic training to set the foundation for expected behavior. Expect them to push the boundaries as they get more comfortable, but consistency in communication will help in the transition. Dogs who are provided with structured routines are more likely to develop strong long-term bond with their families.
At the 3-month mark, most dogs feel fully integrated into their new family. They show increased confidence, trust, and willingness to engage in activities. They may test boundaries and holding some compassion for their point of view is important. Remember- Each dog is an individual and each living situation is unique. This rule is a framework of what you might expect when bringing your new furry friend on a life-long journey together!
By understanding and embracing your pup's adjustment period, you can ensure their dog's transition is a positive and fulfilling experience.
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